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Being There

A good education isn't learning by rote, a good lesson isn't punishment for failing, a good outcome isn't in data and stats.

Healthy boundaries don't guard the gate, but can't be breached. Healthy relationships don't pledge allegiance, but can't be betrayed.

That's because a good influence is always willing to help someone so no one gets left behind, always happy to repeat something so nothing gets forgotten. They call it passing the torch.

So a good mentor is an expert at helping bad students, and bad students are the good person's responsibility. Not respecting the expert, not accepting the responsibility, might seem smart, but they're big mistakes. They call it making the grade.

Notes

The five expressions are very flexible. Here are a few variations with an attempt at consistent grammar, literal in Kroll first edition.

  • Walking well / a good road, no ruts to follow. Good conduct, no precedent to emulate.
  • Speaking well, no fault to punish.
  • Good counting, not using tally rod to predict. Good fate, not using lots to predict. Good numerology, not using yarrow stalks to predict. Crafting well, not using counting rod or bamboo strips. Rebuking well, not using counting rod to whip.
  • Blocking / stopping well, no juncture to block up, but can't be opened / started.
  • Thatching well, no ropes to bind, but can't be loosened. Making friends well / a good outcome, no standard to promise, but can't be taken apart.

is an expression that appears in this poem and in Guliang Zhuan, but nowhere else in ctext. I take it to mean, "Happy, willing and able to help." It's as good will.

is the expert and is the expert's subject matter.

Both and appear as compounds in a handful of passages in ctext. is essential and subtle in Kroll, but I've interpreted them both as verb phrases here.

In Heshanggong, is the inside (its sacred heart?) that can be experienced by those who and , but it's inaccessible to those who lust for life, who can sense only its external ephemera.

Vocabulary

1 + 3
no, not; un-; negative prefix
zhī
4 + 3
marks preceding phrase as modifier of following phrase; it, him her, them; go to
rén
9 + 0
man; people; mankind; someone else
9 + 3
by means of; thereby, therefore; consider as; in order to
12 + 6
his, her, its, their; that
28 + 3
go away, leave, depart
30 + 2
may, can, -able; possibly
shàn
30 + 9
good, virtuous, charitable, kind
37 + 0
big, great, vast, large, high
miào
38 + 4
mysterious, subtle; exquisite
shī
50 + 7
teacher, master, specialist; multitude, troops; hexagram ䷆
cháng
50 + 8
common, normal, frequent, regular
wēi
60 + 10
small, prefix micro-, trifling
qíng
61 + 8
feeling, sentiment, emotion
ài
61 + 9
love, be fond of, like
61 + 11
lust, desire, passion; appetite
66 + 5
ancient, old; reason, because
jiù
66 + 7
save, rescue, relieve; help, aid
shù
66 + 11
number; several; count; fate
míng
72 + 4
bright, light, brilliant; clear
shì
72 + 5
indeed, yes, right; to be; demonstrative pronoun, this, that
zhì
72 + 8
wisdom, knowledge, intelligence
75 + 8
reject, abandon, discard
jiàn
75 + 9
bar of door, bolt of lock
86 + 8
negative, no, not; lack, have no
93 + 4
thing, substance, creature
xiá
96 + 9
flaw in gem; fault, defect
yòng
101 + 0
use, employ, apply, operate; use
118 + 6
scheme, plan; to whip; urge
chóu
118 + 14
chip, tally, token; raise money
yuē
120 + 3
treaty, agreement, covenant
jié
120 + 6
knot, tie; join, connect
shéng
120 + 13
rope, string, cord; measure, restrain
zhě
125 + 4
that which; he who; those who
ér
126 + 0
and; and then; and yet; but; Kangxi radical 126
shèng
128 + 7
holy, sacred; sage
xíng
144 + 0
go; walk; move, travel; circulate; Kangxi radical 144
145 + 16
raid, attack; inherit
yào
146 + 3
necessary, essential; necessity
jiě
148 + 6
loosen, unfasten, untie; explain; hexagram ䷧
yán
149 + 0
words, speech; speak, say; Kangxi radical 149
wèi
149 + 9
say, tell; call, name; be called
zhé
149 + 15
punish; fault, blame, reprove
guì
154 + 5
expensive, costly, valuable
154 + 6
property; wealth; capital
zhé
159 + 12
wagon ruts, wheel tracks
162 + 6
bewitch, charm, infatuate
162 + 6
traces, impressions, footprints
dào
162 + 9
path, road, street; method, way
169 + 3
shut, close; obstruct, block up
kāi
169 + 4
open; initiate, begin, start
guān
169 + 11
frontier pass; close; relation
chú
170 + 7
eliminate, remove, except
suī
172 + 9
although, even if